In my hands I get fairly similar CF:SD write ratios of around 1.2:1 for both 3.8K and 3.5K modes (1536 and 1730 vertical, respectively). The 5.7K anamorphic mode, on the other hand, is wildly unbalanced, at something like 2.5:1.
With a fast CF card and SD overclocking, the sum of the max speeds when not card spanning (something like 90 and 80 MB/s) is well over the maximum combined speed when card spanning (approx. 140 MB/s), so perhaps that'd mean there'd be room for balancing the write load without reducing the total data rate?
Either way, it's true that some modes are more reliable than others in a way that doesn't seem to depend only on the required data rate. I always assumed it was due to different resolutions differentially affecting the compressibility of the image depending on the type of scene (some modes seem fine until faced with highly detailed high key regions whereas others are closer to the edge but seem less fazed by such areas), but this is pure speculation.