I think I'm going to take a longer break now.
You don't owe us, or this project anything. You've given your free time, for almost nine years, to this project, and have driven the project (with the assistance of all other contributors) from a single camera build, to what it is today.
Back when I was very active, I have some very fond memories of spending lots of time discussing various things related to this project, with you. You're assistance and patience was really appreciated. You have not only contributed significant time to the project, but also to helping a countless number of general users, and more importantly, to users who have gone on to actively contribute to this project, who most likely would not have, without the assistance you provided.
Did you forget this is a hobby?
How to handle it? My humor didn't quite hit the mark, I did get some PM's about it being inappropriate.
It's easy to get lost in excitement, and clearly, if you had the foresight to see the actual outcome, things would have been typed differently, of that I am sure.
Given your contributions to the project, personally, I would rather see people just leave it alone. You're both adults, and you're both quite capable of resolving any issues that arise. a1ex even acknowledges that he currently suffers from sick and tired of dumb users bug.
I didn't have this "bug" 5 years ago, for example.
If people contributed to this project with the enthusiasm that they contribute to a misunderstanding, we likely wouldn't even be having this discussion.