Hats off to you reddeercity. You've gone from a 'typical' user to someone willing to dip their toes in the water. I was excited to see you start this thread, but so busy at the time that I never got around to jumping in and sending some praises your way. The funny thing about coding for ML is that no one really knows what they are doing. Some people can for sure code better then others, and some people have more knowledge regarding some things then others, but it's all trial and error to begin with.
My advice would be to let the conversation flow, even when it begins to go a little off-topic. Even in the off topic discussion, you're likely to find pieces of the specific part of the puzzle you are trying to solve, and sometimes it's just best to move onto another area of the puzzle, and then come back to the original area of the puzzle after you've had some success elsewhere. I also prefer to split discussions that become large and deserve their own thread, rather then one or two posts. So if the off-topic drags on for to long, send a pm and I'll happily split it. And try to remember that we're all working towards the same end goal. dfort isn't here to ruin the party, take all of the accolades or all of the attention, he seems to have some good amount of spare time atm, and he also seems to be dumping all of that time into ML. This is a good thing for the project, and in my eyes, the project always comes first. Take advantage of his time and knowledge, bug him about coding stuff. Bug him for knowledge.
And the guys with all the know how need to remember that things that might seem easy, or common sense, generally aren't so easy for us plebes
. And sometimes we're happy just to plod along at our own slow pace, despite the common sense. If that's frustrating for you, well, what goes around comes around.

I get email notification about PM and forum reports, and always check emails. I can find time if I'm really needed. I'm here to help. If you need to vent, pm me, make it obvious you need to vent. Then vent.
And lastly, for the sake of clarity, deleted threads only disappear from a users point of view, mod+ have access. Keep that in mind if you accidentally delete something, it's not gone, just pm me with the details.