1% I'll take a look at H264VideoESViewer_Trial but until I have some news!
http://aeroquartet.com/ is a Movie Repair Service and they have an utility: Treasured.app that allows you to see if
the video can be recovered! Look inside this app (show package contents) it uses some intresting utility!
So:
it opens dat file but has a strange color shift:

Ok, now, after I did a roughly copy/paste of initial data (header?) in hexedit my dat file looks like:

Ok, now I know that video is there, must find a way to recover it!
Aeroquartet is not an option, the price for repair a clip is 139$, I can not afford it!
Quicktime player can open it but the image is black! So there is some other things to do...